As simple as this may sound, for the majority of folks it's extremely difficult to do.
As I think about my most enjoyable and loving relationships, they LOVED ME & I LOVED THEM. There wasn't a lot of back and forth, second guessing, or concern with what others had to say about the relationship.
Other people and second guessing brings confusion. Confusion only breeds more confusion.
Either be HOT or COLD, and not LUKEWARM.
1. Make your mind up about the person and why you loved them in the first place.
2. Understand what thoughts you have about the person. Are they YOUR original thoughts or someone elses. Most of the time, they're someone elses thoughts; not your own.
3. Make a decision and stick with our! NOTHING CAN STOP A MADE UP MIND. Not even temporary defeat. And understand that defeat is almost always TEMPORARY!
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