Showing posts with label broken heart. Show all posts
Showing posts with label broken heart. Show all posts

Friday, February 14, 2014

New Study Reveals the Top 5 Relationship Deal Breakers for Both Men and Women

Dallas, TX, 2/12/2014 - With
Valentine's 2014 weekend upon
us, many will start new
relationships and others will
strengthen their current
relationship. On the other hand,
there will be another group of
individuals that won't be able to
quite "seal the deal."

National Bestselling Author and
Relationship Expert, Armani
Valentino, releases new
independent study of the Top 5
Deal Breakers for both men and
women. He hopes that this
information will be used to help
improve male/female
relationships.

In the study, 73% of the
respondents were female and
27% were male. Over half (54.7%)
of the respondents were single
and had never been married.
Another 25% of the respondents
were divorced. The rest of the
respondents were either married
(12.5%), separated (6.3%), or
widowed (1.5%).

Nearly one-third (60.9%) were
between the ages of 30-39. The
second and third largest group
that responded was between 40-49 (17.2%) and 21-29 (14.1%);
respectively. The remaining
respondents were ages 50-59(4.6%), 60+ (1.6%), 17 & under
(1.6%).

The Top 5 Deal Breakers for Both
Men & Women

Amazingly enough, men and
women agreed on the first and
the last deal-breaker. The
respondents were simply asked
to list, in order of importance,
their top deal-breakers. Here
were the results:

Women & Men
#1 - Lying, Dishonesty
Untrustworthy, Not able to Keep
Your Word

#2 - (Women) - Financially
unstable, No Job, No desire for
more, No Ambition

(Men) - Not feeling morally
supported or Too Much
Negativity from mate

#3 -(Women) - Cheating &
Infidelity

(Men) - Lack of Sex, Bad Sex,
and Infrequent Sex

#4 - (Women) - Not believing in
the same Religion, Lack of
Spiritual Life, Disbelief in God or
Not Attending Regular Spiritual
Service

(Men) - Cleanliness of Body &
House, Unhealthy Habits
(smoking, drinking, drugs, eating,
etc.) &
Unhealthy Weight

Women & Men
#5 - Poor Communication,
Controlling, & Lack of
Compromise

Valentino says, "The results were
a little surprising to me. I was a
little shocked to see that finances
outranked, cheating & infidelity,
as well as spirituality and
communication." When asked
about why he thought this may
have been the case he stated,
"I'm not sure. However, I do know
that some of the women
admitted to me that they would
stay with a man they knew was
cheating before they stayed with
a man that did not make enough
money to do the things she
desired."

With much of life being viewed
almost instantly through social
media, access to the world at
large and desire to live like we
see others, may have had a
somewhat negative effect on our
male/female relationships.
Valentino agreed.

Whatever relationship category
you may be in this Valentine's
weekend, Mr. Valentino suggests,
"Make sure you know what you
want, and don't allow that to be
dictated or heavily influenced by
anyone other than yourself."

Armani Valentino is the author of
the National Bestselling book, 99
Questions You Must Ask a Man
Before Sleeping with Him &
Definitely Before Having SEX, and
9 other books including
bestsellers – The Love Triangle,
Why Do We Hurt Each Other, and
This Is Why I Won’t Marry You.
Since 2008 he’s been a Certified
Marriage/Family Champion for
the TwoGether in Texas. He’s
been featured on national,
regional, and local media since
2007, and is available for radio,
television, and print interviews
upon request.

Contact: Kelland L. Drumgoole,
PR/CMO
Phone: 972-781-8404 or 214-842-7149
Email:
kelland@armanivalentino.com or
info@armanivalentino.com
Website:
www.armanivalentino.com

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Thursday, February 6, 2014

Pick Up the Phone & Call - Relationship Advice of the Day 2/6/2014 Armani Valentino

With email, texting, and social media being the main forms of communication, many relationships of today suffer greatly from lack of interactive face-2-face, heartfelt communication that helps establish a deep connection.

Relationships will continue to fail and marriages will continue end in divorce as individuals seek deep connection that only comes through genuine communication on all levels. And since most people seem to want to avoid the work that it takes learn how to communicate, it may seem as if there is no help.

Sex seems to be the only connection that individuals seek. While this is a very powerful connection, it's one on the lowest level. When there's a true meeting of the minds and spirit, the physical/sexual is often not explainable in words.

So, as opposed to living and communicatingin this virtual reality, next time pick up the phone and let the energy of your voice be heard and felt. You can even go one step further and actually invest the time to meet up face-2-face.

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Armani Valentino is a national
bestselling author, publisher, consultant, speaker, relationship &
life coach, director, producer, actor, & renaissance man.

Books and other products/services
available @ www.ArmaniValentino.com

He is available for media appearances, panel discussions,
workshops & conferences, private consultations & coaching
sessions, and more by calling 972-781-8404

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Do not Criticize, Condemn, or Complain - Relationship Advice of the Day 2/4/2014

In one of the bestselling books in the last 100 years, Dale Carnegie states, DO NOT CRITICIZE, CONDEMN, or COMPLAIN.

I've realized that complaining about complaining is still complaining. So, to be able to develop the habit of seeing the bright side or positive in the situation, versus criticizing or complaining about it, is important for relationship success.

There's almost always more than one way to accomplish the desired result.  Whatever way that is for one person may not be the same for another; and that's ok.

Look at the bright side of things rather than searching for something to CRITICIZE, CONDEMN, our COMPLAIN about.

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Armani Valentino is a national
bestselling author, publisher, consultant, speaker, relationship &
life coach, director, producer, actor, & renaissance man.

Books and other products/services
available @ www.ArmaniValentino.com

He is available for media appearances, panel discussions,
workshops & conferences, private consultations & coaching
sessions, and more by calling 972-781-8404